Thursday, August 11, 2011

Updated Goals List (big and small):

-Get my house in order-clean and company ready including guest rooms
-Put up artwork, and make my space more my own
-Donate clothes and things that have been boxed up to donate for months (to a year)
-Keep growing out my hair and bangs
-Give my dog a bath
-Sigh up to take a French class (finally!)
-Use the yoga classes that I already paid for! 
-Try a new recipe
-Find the time to finish all of the books I started last year
-Map out some space in my life to work on my novel
-Start saving more money (a plan is now in the works)

Monday, June 13, 2011

Shopping List

I thought it would be fun to make a sort of a list of all of my favorite places to shop for clothes and what I like to buy at each place.  My budget is not huge, and I do not like to pay a lot for clothes, but I find that if you are willing to shop the sales, you can go to nicer places and find beautiful things in (almost) any budget.  Here we go!
For classic pieces that have that little something special, I trust The Limited and The Loft.  They have beautiful fabrics and textures that make you happy to get dressed in the morning (although they do call for a little extra care if you want to keep them looking new).  Some examples of some great pieces I have picked up from The Loft include a beautiful black pencil skirt (a Christmas present form my folks), as well as a pretty great “old man sweater” that is grey on one side and fawn on the other (I’m a cardigan girl). From the limited I have a deep blue T-shirt with a pretty droopy bow on the front that I got for only 10 dollars!  It is so flattering that I went back and got it in the green too. 
For fun, special pieces, my go-to store is Urban Outfitters.  You can get so many statement pieces there that will make you feel beautiful and like you are the most well dressed, original looking girl in the room.    My one problem with them is that they do tend to like extra baggy and sometimes too short styles (which I am not a fan of), so try everything on to make sure it is long enough, and flattering.  My favorite Urban Outfitters buy is my purple dress (you can see a photo of it in this blog if you look below).   They are also a great place to find beautiful leather flats, but be prepared to pay full price (usually about 30 to 40 dollars a pair).
I also like Dillard’s for their great shoe sales.  I have gotten so many great leather shoes over the years in the 20 dollar price range that have lasted better than any other shoes I have.   I have had a great pair of black leather pumps that work with everything and are super comfortable. 
Steve Madden is wonderful for its boot sales, although I am not going to pretend that they are exactly cheep.  They are something that I need to save up for, but certainly worth it to have good quality boots that you can live in all winter.  I am on the lookout now for a good tall black pair.
Forever 21 is great when I need to find something in my price range and can’t wait for a sale.  Say you need something for tonight; you have a pretty good chance of finding something you will like without having to shop around.  Just watch out because they have a pretty big mix of both good-enough fabrics and pretty shabby ones.  They are also a pretty trendy store, which is okay; just don’t ever spend too much money on anything you may not like next year!  Still, you can get lucky.  One of my favorite tops is a burnt orange well fitted T-shirt with a little bit of crocheted lace on the top that I have had for years.  I take extra good care of it (it has never seen the inside of the dryer) to keep it from falling apart of getting covered in pills. 
Gap and Target are my go-to places for basics.  For example, Target is the best place in the world to get simple, long soft tank tops, and Gap is the king of the basic T.  Both stores provide good quality pieces that are so affordable, if you find something you like you can get one in any color (assuming Gap is having a sale of course).  I just bought some basic T’s from gap that I adore.  They are simple, but often have a little something extra to keep it from being boring.  I am wearing a soft pink gap T right now that has a touch of mesh on the shoulders and around to the top of the back.  So flattering. 
I am a Gap girl all the way for jeans, but you have to try them on.  Gap sizing is all over the map.  I have jeans in size 4, 6 and 8 from Gap and they all fit perfectly (if not a tiny bit big by the end of the day, including the 4’s).  I like them because they are durable, soft, and there are lots of styles to choose from.  I like their “long and lean” (runs large in my experience), and their “sexy boot cut” (true to its name), but I absolutely love their “skinny” jeans.  The dark ones are extra flattering for curves, but I like their lighter wash as well.  I just keep buying the dark wash again and again, just so that I can wear them as often as possible! 
In my opinion (which of course is what I am writing about), there is absolutely no reason to get Gap jeans at full price, as they have on-line and in-store sales almost every other week.    For that matter, there is pretty much no reason to get anything at any of these stores for full price.  I never even look at the full priced items, but always make a B-line for the sale rack.  The Limited for example has some truly surprisingly low sale prices from time to time (like my new jewel toned tops).
No matter where I go, I stick to these simple budget rules: spend no more than 10 to 15 dollars on any top, no more than 15 to 20 dollars on a cardigan (unless it is really special and will last forever), 30 to 50 dollars on jeans (and if they are 50, they better be the best jeans in the world), and spend whatever it takes on good bras and underwear!  It is worth it for something you are going to wear every day that is going to completely define how the rest of your outfit will look. 
So there you have it!  Of course rules are made to be broken, and everyone’s budget and style is different, but that is what I like.  I’d love to see Rachie’s list next as I know she has her own go-to places, and spends a bit more on each piece than I do (I’m guessing) but always looks so amazing it is worth it! 
Happy shopping!       

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

World’s Most Beautiful Dress

I bought this dress for $30 at Urban Outfitters on Sunday and I am totally in love!  I wish I could wear it every day.  I can’t get a great shot of it with my camera phone, but you can kind of tell how special it is.  Along with my strap up cognac Steve Madden boots, my bright green trench that Rachie gave me several years ago, and my burnt orange P-Coat from J Crew, it is now one of the pieces I cannot live without!  I am so scared of spilling coffee on it today; I can barely take a sip without fear!    
The dress (With a Target cardigan).
I'm wearing these wonderful T-Strap heals that I got at The Rack in AZ years ago with it today. 

Monday, May 16, 2011

Beautiful Girls

Just for fun, I made a list of women on the big and small screen that I find very attractive.  Here goes (in no particular order):
1) Christina Hendricks – My favorite!!!  I love red heads, real or fake.  Plus, she just exudes confidence.  Not to mention that body!  I want to be her.  I will be her-or at least her Mad Men Character Joan- for Halloween next year. 
2) Lily Cole- Another redhead (what a shock!).  She looks like an angel, even when she is posing for Play Boy.  She doesn’t look like anyone else in the world. 
3) Marion Cotillard- Always elegant, and just so dang French.  I want to be her too.  Or at least have her hair. 
4) Audrey Hepburn- Love love love her style.  Nothing can compare. 
5) Audrey Tautou- Another elegant French girl.  I will see anything she ever does. 
6) Scarlett Johansson- I liked her more when she was a little more curvy, but still, what a beauty.  I love how she is always changing her hair.  She has an interesting and brave sense of style for Hollywood.
7) Mila Kunis- What a face!  So cute. 
8) Alexis Bledel- Also very cute.  Terrible actress, but I can’t help but love her.
9) Kirsten Dunst- (see synopsis above). 
10) Eliza Dushku- More sexy than beautiful, but you can’t help but love a bad-ass girl who actually looks like she could kick butt with the boys.
11) Emma Stone- Wonderful.  Not so great with the blond hair (who would have guessed I would like her better as a redhead?), but still quite beautiful and unique.
12) Kat Dennings- Curvy and cute.  I hope to see her in more films, just as she is.  I hope that Hollywood doesn’t shame her into losing her body and becoming another bobble head. 

13) Natalie Portman – can’t deny, the girl has a perfect face. 

14) Ginnifer Goodwin- more cute than beautiful in my opinion, but I feel like I can relate to her, so she is always easy to rout for in any role.


15)  Forgot Zooey Deschanel!  Such cute style.  

I’ll add more as I think of them, but these are my favorites!   

Feeling blah, and needing some motivation!

I have been in such a funk lately, and feeling like I need a break from my life.  While I need a vacation desperately, I mainly just need to get out of my own way and actually DO the things that I have been putting off and I would feel so much better!  My husband and I discussed it this weekend, and he has been feeling the same way.  I am just so so good at finding “better” things to do, like watching TV shows with my husband, or staring at the computer or literally doing almost nothing at all (actually very important sometimes, but not as often as I do it!).  All procrastinating does is add MORE unneeded stress.  Stress= getting sicker and missing more work, which = more stress.  Sooo….It’s time for a new goals list! 
I NEED TO:
1)      get projects done at work that have been staring at me FOREVER (why am I screaming?)!  It is daunting, but doable: my main goal for the week is to accomplish one big thing per day, and get some of this clutter off of my desk and out of my head! 
2)      clean my room.  And vacuum my whole house.  And donate clothes. Basically, just spruce things up at home and get the clutter out.
3)      stop eating so much sugar and cookies!  I am happy with my body, but really, that type of eating is just mindless and unhealthy.  I am going to try to go a week without added sugar.  Fruit is okay.  I’m not a masochist.   
4)      continue my goal to get in shape, and keep adding in more exercise.  My goal has been to exercise for one hour at least three times a week.  I haven’t made that goal in a while, although I never go a full week without at least doing ZUMBA once.  I’d like to make it to my 3X’s a week goal more often!
5)      try Hot Yoga at least once this week.  My pass that I bought is about to expire! 
6)      FINNALLY (there I go again; yelling my key board off), go get a massage.  I’ve had two gift cards for over a year just sitting there!  That is just stupid.
7)      spend more time with the people I love and try not to be self centered, no matter what is going on in my life. 
8)      finish reading the Harry Potter series before my sister starts to hate me! Plus, I am really enjoying those books anyway, when I make the time to read.  :)

*And just for fun, I’m going to wear a dress every day this week.  I’ve had some of my dresses for years, but I have only worn them each once or twice!  What the heck am I saving them for anyway?  Today I am wearing a cute wrap dress with tall brown boots.  :)
My motivation to get these things done is to feel good and have nothing to worry about when I do get to go on vacation this summer (I have a few planned for once), or when my brother and sister are here visiting.  Time to get out of my own way and just do it! 

Friday, May 13, 2011

In a friendship, if is it worth the risk to confront problems and hope the love and trust survives? I say "yes"

Wednesday, May 11, 2011






Paper crafts are my favorite. Measuring, slicing, gluing and shaping. The intense focus it takes to turn what I can see in my mind into something physical is intoxicating is like meditation. I think other people get this same feeling from exercise. Blegh. I like making things that are impractical, purely pleasurable folly.




Oh Portland fall. I love you

Thursday, May 5, 2011

looking forward to August

A good book and a fancy crepe? I take myself on the best dates... We will go there best friend!

Monday, May 2, 2011

bestests!

This is US! It is a drawing rather than a photo to deter stalkers

Sunday, May 1, 2011

la la la photo

Cutest Christmas present from the sweetest sweetheart

happy soup!

I made the best soup. I don't like eating fresh vegetables and I cannot live off of cheese, garlic, and popcorn like I would like, so I have figured out an acceptable way of getting this stuff into me. I threw some "better than bullion" into into half a pot of water and then a few handfuls of red potatoes, celery, carrots, onions, a can of chopped tomatoes, leeks, garlic, and fresh ground pepper. It stewed for a while and turned into the one thing I can be proud of this weekend. Thank god. ♥

"No Weigh May"

I have decided not to weigh myself even once in the month of May as a way to help myself get over my obsession with the scale.  Some days I think I look great, and then I step on the scale and think, "Oh man!  I how did I gain a pound?  I must actually be huge!"  Other days I think I look huge and jump on the scale only to find I have lost a few!  What the heck???  My weight goes up and down daily, and I am sick of having my mood determined by the number I see, and obviously seeing it doesn't help me change my body one way or the other, and it never helps me make better choices from day to day.

I normally weigh myself every single morning, and this is going to be a challenge for me, but I think it will also be good for me in a lot of ways. Actually it will feel like torture not to know for sure what I weigh at any given moment, which is the best reason of all to go without my little ritual.  Wish me luck!  

Saturday, April 30, 2011

Awesome Trick!

Go to your nearest hippi herb store and buy some powered slippery elm. Mix a pinch of it in your palm with some water to make a paste. Apply a dab of the paste to one of your big, red, angry, pussie zits and put a bandaid over it. In a couple of hours (or the next morning) remove the bandaid and wipe the dried paste off with some warm water. Wah-la! Your volcano is a little dried up molehill. You're welcome

Thursday, February 3, 2011

Here are a few of my favorite beauty tips:

1) Use clear mascara to tame fly-away hairs. This trick works wonders for keeping strays at bay, especially when you put your hair up and need a little extra polish. It also works well on baby hairs around the face.

2) Rinse your hair with cold water to make it shinny. This trick really does work! The cold water helps to seal the hair shaft which makes hair look less frizzy and more silky and smooth. It has made a huge difference in the quality and texture of my hair.

3) Use body lotion to ward off cellulite. You don’t have to buy expensive skin firming lotion. Really any kind will do because the act of massaging the skin is really what makes this one work, not the product. I have never had a problem with cellulite (well, not much of one anyway), and I am convinced that my dedication to this practice is the reason why.

4) Use sunscreen and don’t smoke! If you won’t do it for your health, do it for your looks. Nothing ages skin more than sun exposure and cigarette smoke. Cigarettes also contribute to lines around the mouth and tooth discoloration.

5) Speaking of tooth discoloration, I have a trick for that too for when brushing your teeth after eating isn’t practical. I love coffee and tea, and am becoming more and more of a wine drinker these days. All huge culprits for staining teeth! Chewing sugar free gum after drinking is supposed to do wonders for warding off stains, but the chemicals that they use in sugar free gum gives me a tummy ach so that trick is out for me. Instead, I always keep a bottle of water with me whenever I drink anything that might stain my teeth. Every sip of coffee (or tea or wine) is followed by a sip of water. This has worked pretty well for me over the years.

6) Here’s a helpful trick from Rachie: “You know when you get leather shoes and they have that edge at the heal that is not soft enough and it kinda cuts into you heel? You don’t need moleskin, just a piece of scotch tape stuck right on your skin. It hardly shows and it lets the ouchy shoe slide right over the cutty place.” I just ordered some new leather shoes from Urban Outfitters, and I can’t wait to try this trick with them!

Thursday, January 13, 2011

Product Review: Rimmel Nail Polish

Not to be a product pimp but Rimmel nail polish is the best nail polish in the whole world! They have a ton of really pretty sophisticated shades to choose from. I was really into their Steel Grey for a long time (still love it!), but lately I have been obsessed with their Cherry Fashion which I got in my Christmas stocking from my sister. It is a dark, almost red, matt pink that reminds me of 1950’s pin-ups for some reason. I now think of it as my signature color.

The Red Rock looks fine on me (I am as pale as humanly possible), but I have lent it out to a few friends and have found that it really looks especially pretty on people with a light mocha or darker skin tone. It doesn’t look so great on people who are pale with a yellow hue to their skin (as opposed to a pink hue as I have).

I have also tried several other Rimmel colors including the Midnight Blue, and have been equally happy with them.

The best thing about Rimmel nail polish is that it lasts a really really long time compared to other polishes. You can go almost a whole week without needing to touch it up.

Another thing I like about Rimmel polish is that their brushes are thick so you it only takes a few swipes and you are done. This makes it harder to make mistakes.

Also, you never need more than two coats of paint and can sometimes get away with one which really cuts down on drying time.

I highly recommend this product! I have also gotten a lot of compliments on my nails ever since I discovered this brand.

Nikki O’s Goals For The Year

To get in better shape.
This is not a weight or a looks issue. I simply want to be as strong and as healthy as I can be this year. Today will mark my third Zumba class! It’s a lot of fun and it’s a really intense work out. Other types of exercise I enjoy are walking and yoga. I’m really hoping to stick to a good routine this year.

To eat healthy.
Again, just in the interest of better over-all health. Actually, I have a pretty good jump on this one. I have definitely been eating less junk in the last year. I really try to stay away from most processed food. My downfall is my sweet tooth though. Trader Joe’s Lacey’s Cookies are the devil!

To read more.
For someone who likes to write as much as I do, I use very little of my time to read any more. In the interest of not setting goals that I can’t come through on, I will be happy if I get through on book a month. I am going to try to finally read all of the Harry Potter books before the last movie comes out.

To write something every day.
This blog should help with that one. :)

To get something published.
I write a lot for my job (I am a writer/editor for an environmental agency), but I would really like to see something that I have written appear in print, as opposed to something I have written for the web for work.

To buy a house.
I can’t wait to decorate. I day-dream constantly about the curtains that I will buy for each room! I definitely want to get some interesting ones from Urban Outfitters.

To grow out my hair.
Strangely enough, this might be the hardest goal on my list! I really love short hair, but I have had my hair short for over three years now and I think it is time for a change. I sure will miss cutting it myself though. It is always so much fun to drastically change your look and cutting it is so much faster and more dramatic then growing it out!

I know that some of these goals are pretty lofty, but I think they are all doable. I really think 2011 is going to be a great year!

Who We Are

Rachie and I have been best friends since we were 12 years old (we are now 27). Even though we have lived in different states for more than half of the time we have known each other (I live in Albuquerque, New Mexico and she lives in Portland, Oregon), we have remained best friends throughout the years because we are always there for each other through everything that life brings, even if we cannot always be in the same place at the same time.

I 100 percent believe that we are soul mates and we both absolutely need to know that the other one is out there in the world loving us in order for us to function. It is as simple as that.

We are both soul searchers, who try very hard to be our best selves every day. We both believe that happiness comes from self reflection and self improvement.

We are also both interested in crafts, clothes, good food, and other beautiful things, and that is what this blog is about! We are going to write about all of the things that inspire us and make us happy.

love

Nikki and I have been best friends and soul mates for a million years. In our next lives, we plan on being gay French men. We have a long distance friendship, but we still share one heart. This blog will be a place for us to post our thoughts, insights, loves, and tastes.